The Top Ten Sugar Babies in History...
In honor of BAD SUGAR BABY by Erin Carere, currently enjoying an average 4.5 ***** rating on Good Reads and Amazon
Sure, being a sugar baby gets a bad rap, but it also has its perks. It’s not just about cash and luxury – it’s a crash course in entrepreneurship. These babies are funding degrees, launching businesses, and making connections. It's like the hustle, but with champagne and designer shoes.
In fact, engaging in a sugar baby lifestyle can offer several positive aspects, especially when viewed through the lenses of sex positivity, entrepreneurship, self-exploration, and feminism.
From a sex-positive perspective, sugar dating allows individuals to embrace their sexuality and form relationships based on mutual consent and satisfaction, free from societal judgment.
It can also be seen as a form of entrepreneurship, where sugar babies leverage their charm, companionship, and skills to achieve financial stability, support their education, or advance their career goals.
This dynamic promotes self-exploration, as sugar babies often gain insights into their desires, boundaries, and personal aspirations through these relationships.
Furthermore, sugar dating can align with feminist ideals by empowering individuals—especially women—to make autonomous choices about their bodies and relationships, challenging traditional norms and embracing a modern, independent approach to personal and financial growth.
In this way, sugar dating can be a fulfilling and empowering experience, fostering mutual respect and personal development.
Although that’s not entirely what happens to Ollie, the main character in my recent novella from Finch Benson Books, “Bad Sugar Baby.”
Ollie is a broke, no-nonsense 31-year-old aspiring writer who, after getting fired from her job as a personal assistant to a reality TV diva, steps into the sugar baby world, inspired by her friend's seemingly effortless success.
But for Ollie? Her learning curve is steep.
In celebration of the release of "Bad Sugar Baby," let's count down the TOP TEN SUGAR BABIES of all time!
#10: Chloe Cherry, “Faye” on HBO’s “Euphoria.”
Chloe has been refreshingly open about her time as a sugar baby. She says it allowed her to have financial stability while pursuing her acting dreams, and she still keeps in touch with a few of her former daddies, “just as friends.”
#9: Nina Peterson, “The Fairy Godmuva.”
Nina did so well as a sugar baby that she took her entrepreneurial spirit and started a business helping other women find financial stability through wealthy partners. She’s been able to grow wealth for herself and others!
#8: Clodia, Ancient Roman Patrician
Living in the late Roman Republic, Clodia was a patrician known for her beauty, wit, and scandalous affairs with powerful men. She leveraged her relationships for influence and luxury, navigating Roman society with charm and intelligence. Clodia’s life shows how women have long used their allure and smarts to thrive in a male-dominated world, centuries before the term "sugar baby" existed.
#7: Anna Nicole Smith, Actress, Model
Anna Nicole Smith, who denied marrying the exceedingly rich oilman Howard Marshall for his money, led a life of complexity and contradiction. At 26, she married the 89-year-old, facing criticism and legal battles while showcasing the potential benefits of such arrangements. Her life, marked by financial independence and personal struggles, ended in tragedy, reflecting both the allure and pitfalls of the sugar baby lifestyle.
#6: Nell Gwyn, 17th Century Actress and Mistress of King Charles II
“Pretty, witty Nell,” as Samuel Pepys called her, went from poverty to royal favor as an actress and mistress to King Charles II. Nell Gwyn’s story is one of vivacious charm and independence, capturing the hearts of both the king and the public. Her joyful exuberance and spirited embrace of life’s pleasures made her a folk heroine, demonstrating how charisma could flourish even within rigid societal structures.
Side note: Nell was a rival to another actress considered for this list, Moll Davis.
#5: Lola Montez: Dancer and Courtesan to King Ludwig of Bavaria
Lola Montez, the notorious 19th-century dancer and courtesan, captivated Europe with her beauty and fiery temperament. Navigating aristocratic circles with skill, Lola left a trail of intrigue and scandal. Her life, marked by daring escapades and political influence, showcases the power of charisma and calculated risk-taking, cementing her reputation as a femme fatale and adventurer.
#4: Marie Duplessis: French Courtesan
Marie Duplessis, the French courtesan who inspired "La Dame aux Camélias," epitomized the tragic allure of a 19th-century sugar baby. Known for her beauty and wit, she captivated wealthy men and artists alike. Her story, immortalized in literature, opera (“La Traviata”), and film (“Camille”), reflects the delicate balance between love, desire, and societal expectations, making her a poignant symbol of the complexities faced by women pursuing independence and passion.
#3: Eva Peron, Political Activist, First Lady, and “Spiritual Leader” of Argentina
Eva Perón, known as "Evita," transcended humble beginnings to become a global icon of empowerment. As the wife of Argentine President Juan Perón, she championed labor rights, women's suffrage, and healthcare reforms, earning immense popularity. Her passionate speeches and humanitarian efforts made her a revered figure, inspiring movements for equality and social change worldwide.
#2: Mata Hari: Dancer, Spy
Mata Hari, the exotic dancer and accused spy during World War I, remains a symbol of intrigue and mystique. Her captivating performances and enigmatic persona allowed her to navigate European aristocracy and espionage with daring charm. Despite her controversial reputation and tragic fate, Mata Hari's legacy endures as an icon of feminine allure and the complexities of espionage.
SPECIAL MENTIONS:
-Sugar Babies: The Candy
Sugar Babies: the only companionship that's sweet without the drama. They may give you cavities, though!
-Marilyn Monroe, Actress and Modern-Day Venus
Marilyn Monroe deserved to be celebrated for her talent and humanity, not exploited for the tragic narratives imposed upon her by Hollywood and the exploitative men in her life. Still, she leveraged relationships with older and powerful men to become one of the greatest icons of 20th-century America.
#1: Holly Madison, Author, TV Personality, and Playmate
Once a central figure in Hugh Hefner’s Playboy Mansion, Holly Madison can be seen as a savvy player in Hollywood’s social scene. Embracing luxury and fame, she later described her experience not as love for Hugh but as “Stockholm Syndrome.” Despite the challenges, Madison’s journey reveals the strength required to carve out one’s path amid Hollywood's glittering facade.
Who is the #1 BAD SUGAR BABY?
Ollie, of course!
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Erin Carere is an award-winning screenwriter, novelist, singer-songwriter, actor, and film producer. Known for her sharp wit and surprising underdog characters, Erin brings a fresh perspective to the genre of women’s fiction and rom-com, blending humor and heartfelt moments in a way that resonates with readers. Bad Sugar Baby is her first published novella, promising to be the perfect summer beach read for those looking to escape into a world of unexpected adventures.
